7 Best Habits which follow our great leader
We are working day and night to attain our goal. And one path to success is recognizing the habits that aids us on journey. I would like to say that if you are wishing to follow any path. this article will help you a lot. As you may have read so many articles or book about it. Here I am being realistic and give all those secrets to achieve your goal.
To attain a goal, we need some inspiration, this is why we listen motivational speech from motivators or leaders who have succeeded. Motivation can give extra push to get the goal done. I have some favorite motivational speaker like Tony Robbins, Molly Fletcher, shive Khera and many others.
For your information, success doesn’t come from listening to inspirational speech. People always complain that they get highly motivated and feel that they can do whatever they want while watching inspirational speeches. But few moment later they feel demotivated. It occurs with everyone. It is natural process. If you really want to success in life. first, you have to give up the bad habits and follow those principles which have followed by highly effective people.
“We first make our habits, and then our habits make us”~John Dryden
Habits do not only help you to reach the goal but also make us completely different person. you think differently. A lot of people come on conclusion without knowing anything. Because the way they think or see the world is based on their own perception. In order to change this kind of situation, we need to change ourselves first. Then our perception.
What are the 7 habits of highly effective people?
People have got high degree of outward success but still they are struggling with inner need for improving private effectiveness and growing good relationship with other people. A highly effective people cannot judge book by it cover.
So, you should be doing like that. According to Steven R. convey, in early time, people focus on character ethnic such as integrity, humanity, fidelity, temperance, courage, patience and industry simplicity. These are golden rules they used to follow. But in 1920 people shift themselves in other ethics that is known as personality ethic like public image, attitude and most important behaviour.
In this era, people want to achieve something quickly that’s why they learn successful person technique. In this way you can save time and effort. Still you get desire result. This is known as short term solution. However, copying every time won’t let you know about yourself. Here are some tips that will help you to become a better man.
1. Always put first thing first
The reason people stay behind because they don’t know how to give importance. I have seen a lot of people who unconsciously spend so much time on activities that don’t require any more. While doing those work, they make a big picture in mind. In the end, they regret about everything. This habit makes you feel a big failure. My suggestion for everyone, stop this kind of habit otherwise, you will create a worse situation. you have to learn how to manage time first, and second give the priority to those things what really important, not what is urgent. Once you start to consider, you become aware of your own essential needs and priorities.
Putting the first thing first means you have self-awareness and are doing what really matters. Having the habit makes you fight every day to achieve. One of my favourite quotes is written by Stephen Covey.
“The Key is not to prioritize what’s your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”
If you have found yourself where you are and want to follow this habit easily you can use Stephen Covey matrix box, you can make a list of what is urgent? and what is most important? then try to figure out what is most important for you.
2. Just think win
As we know our life is dominated by comparison or competitor. We think very differently like if you are a winner, someone could be looser, or someone is better than you. This kind of mentality never lets you win the war. you focus on those people more than strategies. Because you have fear to lose something. What if we can change the mentality and think win word has only become for me. In this way, your mind feels relax and you can concrete on the work that’s really important for us.
‘’The fastest way to kill something special is to compare it to something else.” ~Craig Groschen
only thinking about the win is a keyword that has a deep impact on the quality of relationships as well. This habit will help you to build long-lasting trust. The habit “just think win” isn’t allowed to compare with one side loser or other side winners. Having this habit improves interaction with others.
3. Make health stronger
this is the most effective habit that allows you to synergistically improve the ability to practice all other habits. A lot of influencers have said that we should devote the time to renewing ourselves in a different way such as socially, spiritually, mentally and physically. Now you are thinking about what it is? Well, this is the dimension that improves our concentration level. Here I am going to define these dimensions.
Physical: we need an ability to do the work more. The best way to improve capability by doing the physical exercise I know this sounds so simple but once you get habitual of it. You will see big changes. The physical activity you have to do per day even a little bit. Also, eat well and try to sleep sufficiently.
Mentally: without a good brain, we are just toys. It means, we all have a job to take care of it. If you want to make brain sharper you have to do some brain exercises such as read books as much as possible, limit the TV show, and improve your thought.
Spiritually: to improve concentration level, you can try mediation, immerse yourself by music or literature, and try to connect with nature.
Socially: to develop a meaningful relationship you need to do something for other people like make a contribution to the project, try to understand other people, and many others like this.
4. Should be clear destination
Our parents used to ask a very common question” what do you what to be when you grow up.” Which means they were trying to check our destination. Think again about what you want to become. Imagination can be used to improve a vision. As you have seen in office people work so hard for promotion or recognition. But we don’t ask ourselves that what we are doing it matter for us or not. everything we do, we need to start with the end in mind. We have to clear the destination, in this way we make sure, all decisions are taken in the right direction.
“it’s incredibly easy to get caught up in an activity trap, in the busyness of life, to work harder and harder at climbing the ladder of success only to discover that it’s leaning against the wrong wall.”~Stephen covey
If you are an asking solution first make list about fear and try to solve them and break down the different roles into little pieces to achieve the goal.
5. Should be proactive
Do you think? You are proactive, proactive means you are ready to take responsibility for your life. this habit you can see in every successful people because they like to do something instead of blaming. These kinds of people don’t criticize genetics, circumstances, and condition for their behaviour. On the other side, people who have their own perception, they keep blaming people and everything want a perfect life without giving extra effort. Reactive people always look external source to blame. One of my favourites writer Stephen coveys has written a quote.
“I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of decisions.”
“If you are born poor it’s not your fault, but if you die poor it your fault” ~ Bill gates
